Lack of attention

If one partner is not getting enough attention from their spouse it can cause a chain reaction and lead to bigger conflicts in the relationship. Lack of attention is the same as a lack of communication.

Lose connection

If you stop giving your partner the love and attention they deserve. You may lose a connection with your partner. You need to pay enough attention to your partner. A lack of attention in your relationship may make your partner numb in different ways. Your partner may no longer feel the need to bond with you. Moreover, it doesn’t matter what causes you not to pay attention to your partner, it isn’t not worth it!

Lack of self love

If your partner gets used to being ignored, there is a high possibility for them to lose their self-worth and self-esteem. However, your partner may be affected by your actions further! They may start thinking they are not getting enough attention in a relationship or maybe they are not worth it anymore.

Lack of intimacy

The more you ignore your partner the lesser the intimacy involved in your relationship. The reason may be because you no longer love them but you are afraid to hurt them or confront the truth or it could be they no longer seem beautiful to you! A lack of intimacy hurts and it slowly destroys your relationship.

Loosing hope

A person who has no attention from their partner is most likely to react in different ways. They may seem sad and depressed at first but the lack of attention in your relationship will open new doors for people to make their move on your partner. However, a partner who doesn’t feel wanted is vulnerable. A partner who has been neglected will give time and attention to new potential partner which leads to infidelity.

Pay close attention

Pay close attention to your partner’s behaviour towards you. There might be chances that they are already sending you signals that they need your attention in a relationship. Many couples separate because a partner is tired of begging for attention from their spouse! However, you can save your relationship by giving your partner enough attention.

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Valentine’s Day

Every year on the 14th February we celebrate love and friendship by exchanging cards, gifts, flowers and candy with our love ones. The wise words of love state that, “love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not hurt others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs.” Love rejoices in honesty.

Valentine’s Day and Urban Lifestyle

The tradition of partners sending love messages has developed over the years due to technology, from sending special e-cards to everyday social media platforms to express their affection and gratitude. The cards are still beautiful creations designed or purchased by a spouse to show how much they love their partner. Moreover, valentine’s cards usually contain a sentimental verse, proclaiming the beauty of a loved partner and how much they are appreciated.

You can Celebrate Love Everyday

Valentine’s Day is not the only day of the year you should show love and appreciation to your loved ones. However, you should show love them each and every day. You can also do small things such as surprises. Try surprising your partner with their favourite breakfast or by bringing them home a bouquet of flowers etc, just a few ideas to spread the love and care.

Valentines Tips for Men

• Buy her a gift.
• Keep her smiling.
• Show interest in her hobbies.
• Play games together.
• Take a bath together.
• Cook dinner together.
• Go out for a date night.
• Go for a drive together.
• Give her your full attention.
• Eat breakfast in bed together.
• Write love letters to each other.
• Enjoy a wine and chocolate tasting.
• Make a scrapbook of your relationship.

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Weddings

Worldwide most couples are going into debt to pay for their weddings. You don’t have to be one of them! However, there are many cheap ways to plan for an affordable wedding. Your marriage is about your love and your partnership and the beginning of your new love life. Remember the more expenses you cut off from your wedding the more you will live happily ever after. Moreover, even if you don’t have a large budget for your wedding, you can still host a fun and memorable celebration at an affordable wedding venue.

The cheapest way to get married in South Africa

The quickest way to get married in South Africa is to find a Marriage Officer, make an appointment and let them take care of the rest. A Marriage Officer can come to your home or venue or you may go to the Marriage Officer. The cheapest way to get married is at Home Affairs and free. However there is no flexibility in terms of when. They will determine the date and time you will get married.

Required documentation if both are South Africans

• Copies of Ids.
• ID (passport) photos for both.
• Divorce decree (if applicable).

If both are non-South Africans

• Copies of Passport (picture page and visa page).
• ID (passport) photos for both.
• Divorce decree (if applicable).
• Letter of non-impediment from home country stating marital status.

Tips for planning a wedding

• Pick a theme.
• Establish a budget.
• Create a checklist.
• Set the date.
• Book a venue.
• Make your guest list.
• Choose your wedding party.
• Build an online gift registry.
• Draft the seating arrangements.
• Find your dream wedding dress.
• Choose your bridal party’s attire.
• Set a wedding day schedule.
• Buy wedding rings.
• Get your marriage certificate.

If you find yourself struggling with any relationship issues get in touch with us. Send the word “help” to the following WhatsApp number +27 81 352 0182 and we will call you within 48 hours.

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Hygiene is important in any relationship

It is a turn off to have unhealthy hygiene in a relationship. However, having a good standard of cleanliness is a must for maintaining health. It prevents the spread of infections and diseases. Healthy hygiene may also stop odour developing on your body. If you don’t maintain your hygiene you may lose your partner, friends and many people will avoid you.

Good hygiene

With good hygiene you can maintain your health and protect yourself from different diseases which may be caused by unhygienic foods or germ-infested activities. Make sure you always keep yourself and your surroundings clean to prevent yourself from viruses and bacterial infections. Remember when you wash your hands regularly it means you stop the spread of germs.

Why it is important to wash your hands?

According to studies, experts for the disease control and prevention say you may get germs on your hands after using the toilet or changing a diaper. Those germs may turn into other things. However, you can leave the restroom with twice the bacteria on your hands as when you entered! Moreover, if you perform proper hand-washing you may have lower rates of diarrhea, viral infections and food borne illnesses.

Steps on how to wash your hands as couple

• Grab a towel and set it aside.
• Wet your hands carefully with water.
• Use clean water (water temperature doesn’t matter).
• Apply soap and foam to your hands (include fingers and under fingernails).
• Use any type trusted soap brand.
• Scrub your hands for a minimum of at least 20 seconds.
• Clean your hands well.
• Use your reserved towel to wipe your hands.

Generally when to wash your hands?

• After changing diapers.
• After touching or handling garbage.
• When using public transport or the toilet etc.
• Before, during and after you prepared food.
• Wish your hands after entering any healthcare practice.
• Wash your hands after you go to public areas.
• Wash your hands after handling money or receipts.
• After you have been exposed to infectious illness.
• Always wash your hands after touching a visibly dirty surface.
• Wash your hands after using an ATM or any buttons on public platforms.
• Wash your hands before and after you consume food or drinks.
• Always clean your hands after you cough, sneeze or blow your nose.
• Always wash your hands when you have touched your phone or other mobile devices.

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Proposal

A marriage proposal is an event where one partner in a relationship, in most cases the man asks his lady for her hand in marriage. However, if accepted, it marks the initiation of engagement, a mutual promise of later marriage. However, it often has a ritual quality.

Timing is important when proposing  

It’s also good to think about timing of things long before you purchase a ring or plan the proposal event. Timing is everything! Make time to discuss your future plans with your partner before planning for proposal. Please ensure that your partner is ready for a marriage proposal to avoid unnecessary disappointment.

Planning the proposal

To plan a perfect marriage proposal can sometimes be complicated, especially with thousands of proposal ideas. However, by deciding to plan a unique marriage proposal there is a lot of pressure. There are few ways to ensure you are planning the best possible proposal for your partner. The first step is to consult with a professional who can help you to plan out a perfect marriage proposal or you can do it yourself if have a capacity.

Depending on your partner’s personality

If you have talked about the future and considered your partner’s personality type, the next step is getting into the details of the proposal. However, if you proposing to a quiet partner who doesn’t like the spotlight. Plan a proposal that is special and private, perhaps at home. Moreover, if your partner is open type of person who like the spotlight, you can do your proposal in front of a group of people or any large public displays.

Proposal ideas you may consider

• You could set up a picnic.
• Propose after mountain hike together.
• Do it on a rooftop.
• Do it on a boat ride.
• Include soft music.
• Take a secret video.
• Includes bottle of wine.
• Plan it on your partner’s favourite holiday.
• Create a romantic beach scene.

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