A cheating partner

The sign of a cheating a partner may include improving their appearance, guarding their phone, changing their schedule and fading away emotionally. However, cheaters tend to use their phones and computers more frequently than before and to guard them as if their lives depend on it. If your partner’s phone and laptop never required a password before and now they do, that’s not a good sign. Moreover, your partner suddenly starts deleting texts and clearing their browser history on a daily basis, that’s not a good sign! However, sometimes a partner can display several signs of cheating and still be faithful.

A cheating partner’s schedule changes with no good explanation.

Most couples have expected schedules even if their schedule changes, there’s usually a reason that makes sense. However, one partner is working late all of a sudden at times that go beyond a reasonable explanation that may be related to cheating. Moreover, happens especially if your partner has no new job, promotion or project they are working on.

A cheating partner’s friends don’t seem as friendly as they used to be

Cheaters tend to be less careful about covering their tracks in front of friends versus you. Most people tend to disclose their relationship affairs to their friends. As a result, there is a good chance your partner’s friends may know what’s really going on before you do. Those friends may end up feeling uneasy and anxious around you because they know something you don’t know about your partner.

A cheating partner’s habits change

This can include a range of things, like changing their password or keeping their phone on them all the time when they used to leave it sitting out. These changes are indicative of the deception that cheating always involves and therefore are strong signs of cheating.

A cheating partner suddenly paying more attention to their appearance

The reasons and timing must make sense. However, if your partner is suddenly wearing perfume or spending a lot of money on new clothes and it was never their thing in the past. It’s not unreasonable to find out why! Therefore their answer doesn’t make sense. This should be a red flag!

A cheating partner spends less time than usual around you

It’s okay to ask your partner what’s going on when they are suddenly not around as much as usual. However, cheaters have to make time for their other partners and that time usually comes from time you once spent together. Also, if the affair has gone on for a while, there may be demands placed upon them by their other partner to spend more time together.

What they say and what actually happens does not add up.

This is often how cheaters get caught. Maybe your partner says they needed to do something that doesn’t add up or someone they say they were with slips that they weren’t. The truth is easy but lies are hard to keep straight. Objective evidence supports truth but often conflicts relate to lies.

A cheating partner may accuse you of cheating

This is a weird but common habit of cheaters and there are a few reasons for it. By making your alleged behaviour the issue, it puts you on the defensive and takes the focus off of them. It can also make you less likely to speak up about things that seem off because you don’t want to upset them, given that they are already “worried” that you are cheating. And it also gives them a reason to say “they need time away to think,” a.k.a. meet up with their lover.

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