Family Relationships 25 Facts To Avoid

1. Becoming very busy at work to purposely avoid your family.
2. Using alcohol or drugs to avoid sober conversations with certain family.
3. Moving across the country to avoid your family situations.
4. Only talking about sports or the weather or other unrelated topics.
5. Canceling on people at the last minute to feel instant relief.
6. Texting someone when you should probably call them.
7. Avoiding listening to an important voicemail or text messages.
8. Only talking about your kids when you talk with your spouse.
9. Lying about your beliefs to avoid a disagreement. 
10. Only seeing your family on duty visits.
11. Asking someone lots of questions to avoid sharing about your own life.
12. Ghosting a date instead of telling them you’re really not interested.
13. Saying “I’m good,” “I’m fine,” “I’m OK,” etc. when you are really not.
14. Changing the subject when you sense people are anxious.
15. Not introducing yourself to co-workers who seem intense.
16. Not initiating conversations with people who look different than you.  
17. Avoiding talking to people who are sick or dying.
18. Not talking about past family history that is anxiety-producing.
19. Bringing up a difficult topic during the last two minutes of therapy.
20. Not engaging in a conversation that is difficult but important.
21. Turning on the television at family gatherings.
22. Double booking so you have an easy out at a gathering.
23. Planning non-stop activities to keep everyone busy.
24. Assuming people aren’t interested in hearing about your passions.
25. Minimizing your accomplishments to make others comfortable.

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Introduction

Facing your fears can be regarded as a little bit of fear that is common for every human being. However facing your fears can help us automatically to protect ourselves from harm. Our fears help us to recognize when we are about to do something dangerous and it also helps us to make the right or safer choices. But, you might find yourself fearful of things that are not actually dangerous such as public speaking. Consequently, your fear of public speaking might prevent you from advancing in your career or participating in other things you would like to pursue in life.

Does fear and anxiety keep you from dealing with unavoidable situations and emotions?

15 Tips for overcoming anxiety and phobias by facing your fears:

1. Firstly, allow yourself to sit with your fear for 2-3 minutes at a time.
2. Breathe with it and say, “It’s okay”.
3. Have something nurturing planned immediately after your 2-3 minute sitting period is completed.
4. Call a good friend waiting to hear from you.
5. Do an activity you know is enjoyable and exciting. Write down the things you are grateful for.
6. Look at the list when you feel you are in a bad place.
7. Remind yourself that your anxiety is a storehouse of wisdom.
8. Write a letter, “Dear Anxiety, I am no longer intimidated by you. What can you teach me?”
9. Do some exercises so that your mind can only focus on one thing at a time.
10. Whether you go on a short walk or head to the boxing gym for an all-out sweat session.
11. Do a 15-minute yoga session at home (exercise is good for you and it will help you feel more capable).
12. Use jokes to deflate your worst fears.
13. Tell yourself during this difficult time, I don’t allow fear to keep me from doing something that scares me.
14. Make yourself stronger, don’t allow the next fear attack to stop you from progression.
15. Be your own best friend, don’t be afraid to try anything new.

Conclusion

If you find that your fear holds you back or creates bigger problems in your life, facing your fear may help you learn to better cope with the fear and ultimately overcome it. Common ways of facing your fears are evaluating the risks, creating an action plan, seeing a therapist, and being sure not to completely avoid your fears. However, you may need to first decide whether it’s necessary to face your fear if it is not part of your daily life.

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Base your meals on higher fibre starchy carbohydrates such as potatoes, bread, rice, pasta and cereals.

• Fibre other than white or refined starchy carbohydrates and can help you feel full for longer.
• Include at least 1 starchy food with each main meal.
• Keep an eye on the fats you add when you’re cooking or serving these types of foods because that’s what increases the calorie content – for example, oil on chips, butter on bread and creamy sauces on pasta.
• Also on the fats you add when you’re cooking or serving these types of foods such as oil on chips, butter on bread and creamy sauces on pasta (because they increase the calorie).

Eat lots of fruit and vegetables

• Eat at least five portions of a variety of fruit and vegetables every day. They can be fresh, frozen, canned, dried or juiced.
• Chop a banana over your breakfast cereal, or swap your usual mid-morning snack for a piece of fresh fruit.
•  A portion of fresh, canned or frozen fruit and vegetables is 80g. A portion of dried fruit (which should be kept to mealtimes) is 30g.
• A 150ml glass of fruit juice, vegetable juice or smoothie also counts as 1 portion, but limit the amount by just taking one glass a day as these drinks are sugary and can damage your teeth.

Fish… You can choose from fresh, frozen, and canned, but remember that canned and smoked fish can be high in salt.

• Healthy eating starts when you eat more fish, including a portion of oily fish.
• Fish is a good source of protein and contains many vitamins and minerals.
• Aim to eat at least 2 portions of fish a week, including at least one portion of oily fish.
• Oily fish are high in omega-3 fats, which may help prevent heart disease. 

Oily fish include:

• Salmon
• Trout
• Herring
• Sardines
• Pilchards
• Mackerel

Non-oily fish include:

• Haddock
• Plaice
• Coley
• Cod
• Tuna
• Skate
• Hake

Cut down on saturated fat and sugar

• You need some fat in your diet, but it’s important to pay attention to the amounts and type of fat you’re eating.

There are two most important types of fat

• Saturated
• Unsaturated

Too much saturated fat can increase the amount of cholesterol in the blood, which increases your risk of developing heart disease.

• On average, men should have no more than 30g of saturated fat a day.
• On average, women should have no more than 20g of saturated fat a day.
• Children under the age of 11 should have less saturated fat than adults.
•  A low-fat diet is not suitable for children under 5.

Saturated fat is found in many foods, such as:

• Fatty cuts of meat
• Sausages
• Butter
• Hard cheese
• Cream
• Cakes
• Biscuits
• Lard
• Pies

Cut down on your saturated fat intake. Healthy eating start when you choose foods that contain unsaturated fats instead, such as vegetable oils and spreads, oily fish and avocados.

• For a healthier choice, use a small amount of vegetable or olive oil, or reduced-fat spread instead of butter, lard or ghee.
• When you’re having meat, choose lean cuts and cut off any visible fat.
• All types of fat are high in energy, so they should only be eaten in small amounts.

Sugar

• Regularly consuming foods and drinks high in sugar increases your risk of obesity and tooth decay.
• Sugary foods and drinks are often high in energy (measured in kilojoules or calories).
• Consuming sugary foods and drinks too often can contribute to weight gain.
• Too much of sugary foods and drinks can also cause tooth decay, especially if eaten between meals.
• Free sugars are any sugars added to foods or drinks or found naturally in honey, syrups and unsweetened fruit juices and smoothies.

Many packaged foods and drinks contain surprisingly high amounts of free sugars.

Free sugars are found in many foods, such as:

• Sugary fizzy drinks
• Sugary breakfast cereals
• Cakes
• Biscuits
• Pastries and puddings
• Sweets and chocolate
• Alcoholic drinks

Healthy eating start when you use food labels to check how much sugar foods contain.

• More than 22.5g of total sugars per 100g means the food is high in sugar.
•  5g of total sugars or less per 100g means the food is low in sugar.

Salt

Eat less salt: no more than 6g a day for adults

• Eating too much salt can raise your blood pressure.
• People with high blood pressure are more likely to develop heart disease or have a stroke.

About three-quarters of the salt you eat is already in the food when you buy it, such as breakfast cereals, soups, breads and sauces.

• Use food labels to help you cut down the salt intake.
• More than 1.5g of salt per 100g means the food is high in salt.
• Adults and children aged 11 and over should eat no more than 6g of salt (about a teaspoonful) a day.
• Younger children should have even less.

With healthy eating you can get active and be a healthy weight

• Healthy eating may reduce the risk of obesity.
• Doing regular exercises may help reduce your risk of getting serious health conditions. It’s also important for your overall health and well-being.

Water

Do not get thirsty

• You need to drink plenty of fluids to stop you from getting dehydrated.
•  It’s recommended to drink 6 to 8 glasses of water every day.
• All non-alcoholic drinks count, but water, lower-fat milk and lower sugar drinks, including tea and coffee, are healthier choices.
•  Avoid sugary soft and fizzy drinks, as they’re high in calories.
• Your combined total of drinks from fruit juice, vegetable juice and smoothies should not be more than 150ml a day.

Do not skip breakfast

• Some people skip breakfast because they think it’ll help them lose weight.

Healthy Eating (breakfast)

• A healthy breakfast can help you get the nutrients you need for good health.
•  A healthy breakfast high in fibre and low in fat, sugar and salt can form part of a balanced diet.
•  A wholegrain lower-sugar cereal with semi-skimmed milk and fruit sliced over the top is tasty and healthier breakfast.

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Introduction

Exercise may sound like a dirty word to some, but it’s vital to your health and wellbeing. One of the easiest ways to get fit is walking, and getting yourself a pedometer may be just what you need to hike the path of fitness.

Get yourself some good walking shoes, clip on your pedometer and take some steps toward wellness. Initially, wear the pedometer to work to get a feel of how many steps you actually take a day. The goal is 10 000, so if you walk 2 000 or 3 000 a day at present, try to get it up by 500 in the next week.

Spend at least a week at that number of steps before increasing your goal again. If you still feel that it’s a strain to reach your goal, work at it another week before increasing. Improving your overall health and fitness is a gradual process, and taking things too quickly can lead to injury, so don’t increase your steps too quickly.

Here’s how to step it up:

Firstly, Walk in place or pace when on the phone. Get up during TV ads and walk around until your program begins again. In addition walk in place during the TV program.

Secondly, use a restroom further from your office or on a different floor. Use the stairs whenever you can and park further away than usual. Walk to a colleague’s office instead of using the phone or e-mail

Finally take a walk at lunch time and then eat at your desk Try to spread your walking out. You’ll find it difficult to continue and see fewer benefits if you sit most of the day and then try to get all your steps done at once. If your goal is 6 000 steps a day, you should have completed around 3 000 by early afternoon. Keeping yourself on track throughout the day will help prevent injury and keep you from feeling overwhelmed or disheartened.

Conclusion

In conclusion if you feel that exercise may sound like a dirty word you need to remember the long term benefits of exercise on your health.

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